Describing Your Sleep
So you are in the healthcare provider's office, talking about your latest illness or going through your routine physical. Your healthcare provider turns to you and says, "So what else is new?" And you say ...
See? It isn't always easy to bring up your lack of sleep. What do you say? How do you say it so your healthcare provider will take it seriously? Below are a few suggestions for talking about your sleep with your healthcare provider.
- Set aside a few minutes during your appointment to discuss your sleep.
- Take out your Sleep Discussion Guide and refer to it when needed.
- Start by telling the healthcare provider about your sleep habits and if they have changed.
- Use numbers to paint the picture of your sleep for your healthcare provider. For example, if it now takes you more than an hour to get to sleep, tell them that but also tell them that it used to take just 15 minutes. Also quantify how often this happens and how long it has been going on, such as by saying, "This happens 4 or 5 times a week and has been going on for more than a month. In the past, this might happen once a week or less."
- Describe the quality of sleep you are having. Sleep should be refreshing, meaning you feel better in the morning without any residual sleepiness. If it isn't, you should tell your healthcare provider.
- Tell your healthcare provider if your daytime sleepiness is affecting your life. Tell your healthcare provider if you think the lack of sleep is causing excessive sleepiness during the day, a lack of energy, difficulty concentrating, depressed mood, or increased irritability.
- Mention anything you have tried in the past or present to rectify the lack of sleep. If you have tried changing your sleep habits by keeping the room dark and cool or have taken over-the-counter sleep aids, outline what has worked and what has not.
- Tell the healthcare provider what concerns you might have in using a sleep aid. For example, if you fear that a sleep aid will worsen your breathing, affect your balance or memory, or leave you sleepy the next day, talk to the doctor about that concern.

